This 60-minute workshop was recorded live in January 2025.
Learn the 6-step framework for repairing with your kids after rupture - breaking the guilt spiral so you can show up with honesty instead of shame.
What You'll Get In This Workshop:
The 6-step repair framework (what to do after you yell)
How to regulate yourself first before attempting repair
How to name what happened without shame or abstraction
The practice of mirroring your child's experience
How to know when repair is necessary vs. when it's just Tuesday
The Intentional Time-Out Protocol (for you OR your kid)
Access to The Repair Library - an intentionally simple digital space with the written framework, protocol, and workshop recording (no busy course platform)
What's Included:
60-minute workshop recording (lifetime access)
Complete written framework (formatted like a blog you can bookmark)
Intentional Time-Out Protocol
Workshop transcript
(you can check you some of the reels I made here if you’re still on the fence)
FOR THOSE WHO WANT MORE CONTEXT about the power of repair
You know that sinking feeling after you've yelled at your kids?
That guilt spiral that keeps you up at night wondering if you've damaged them forever?
Here's what I need you to know: You're not broken. You're human.
The research is clear: Repair is the biggest predictor of well-rounded children. Not perfection. Not never losing your cool. Repair.
When you circle back and say "Hey, I lost my cool there and I want to check in about how that landed for you" - that's where the magic happens. That's what breaks generational patterns. The repair piece? That's probably what was missing from your own childhood.
This is neuroplasticity for relationships. The first time you repair might feel awkward and uncomfortable. With repetition it becomes familiar. After a while, it becomes automatic. You can learn to repair in ways that also become ingrained. Change your relationship with rupture - it's a crucial component of parental mental health.
NO MATTER WHAT YOU TRY...
You can't escape the guilt spiral after yelling
You struggle to move past the rupture with your kids
You find yourself repeating patterns from your own childhood
WELL WHAT IF...
You had a clear roadmap for repair that actually works?
Real steps to help you circle back with your kids after rupture in ways that build trust instead of shame.
You could break the guilt spiral instead of drowning in it?
Skills that work for YOU when it comes time to move from rupture to repair - without adding more shoulds to your plate.
You finally began to repair your relationship with yourself?
When we give ourselves what we didn't receive as kids, we can show up differently for our own children.
MEET KAYLA
I'm Kayla Huszar - Registered Social Worker, Expressive Arts Therapist, and the person behind The Motherload Membership and Chill Like a Mother podcast.
I've been featured on CBC's "The Current" and Maclean's magazine talking about parenting approaches. My article "My Misadventures with Gentle Parenting" went viral because turns out, a lot of us struggle with this stuff.
I specialize in maternal mental health and helping overwhelmed mothers who are trying to parent differently than they were parented. My approach? Pathologically empathetic, anti-bullshit, and refreshingly honest about the hard parts.
I'm not here to sell you transformation or promise you'll never yell again. I'm here to give you real tools that might work for you (and might not - and that's okay too).
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
✓ You've lost your shit with your kids and feel crushed by guilt
✓ You want to parent differently than you were parented but don't know how to repair after rupture
✓ You're ready to break the guilt spiral and show up for your kids with honesty instead of shame
BUT NOT FOR YOU IF...
✗ You're looking for a magic cure to never yell again
✗ You want another rigid parenting framework that makes you feel like shit
✗ You're not willing to look at what you didn't receive as a child
what makes this repair workshop different
This isn't another fucking webinar where someone tells you to "just stay calm" and you leave feeling worse about yourself or worse they just pitched you their paid thing the whole time and GAVE you ZERO solutions.
✗ NOT another gentle parenting lecture where you're told what you "should" do
✗ NOT a course with 47 videos you'll never watch
✗ NOT homework you'll feel guilty about not completing
This is about what you do AFTER you lose it. Because you're going to lose it. The question is: do you know how to circle back?
✓ Doing the actual work in real time, guided step-by-step
✓ Walking away with something tangible you created yourself
✓ Practical tools you can use immediately
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