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You want to make Christmas magical… BUT… You just don't want to have to do ALL of it.
You try to talk about Christmas with your partner, but it feels like you're talking to an empty room. He hears you, but he isn't taking action.
You are legit good at this, but you don't want to HAVE to be the one to do it all. Your tolerance for shouldering it all isn't as strong as it used to be (and it shouldn't be).
You keep saying it's fine. It's not fine. The resentment is piling up faster than the wrapping paper.
You're carrying Christmas for everyone, and nobody asked if you would. Of course you're resentful.
It's not that you wanna cancel Christmas and all the fun and sh*t. You just don't want to throat punch your family.
Sound like how your Christmas is gonna go?
last years way
The workshop way
Decide what actually matters to you this year, and let the rest go
Pause before you say yes, with the words ready to say no
Hand off parts of the list, and stop redoing them when he does it his way
Notice when you're about to lose it, and know how to come back
Buy whatever for everyone, wrap it at midnight, and hope it's enough
Say yes to every invite and hope you aren't wrecked by New Year's
A Christmas that's conceptualized, planned and executed BY YOU (and only you)
Keep a silent tally of what you did and what he did
what you’ll walk away with:
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Get clear on what you want this year, so you know what to say yes (and no) to
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The stuff that makes Christmas so not chill (aka why you're miserable, resentful and losing your mind trying to make the magic)
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How to get out of your head and figure out what you need from people this year. No guarantees your mother-in-law or husband won't be pissed off, though.
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Learn what to do when you're about to lose it, and how to come back faster when you already have
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Stop protecting everyone from disappointment (even yourself), and still enjoy your Christmas. You really do got this.
Is this workshop for you?
This is for you if:
You're the mom who makes Christmas happen, and you're tired of doing it alone
You can feel the resentment building, and Christmas hasn't even started
You're dreading the in-laws, the comments or the 7pm dinner
Your partner is a good guy who somehow never sees the list
You'll actually watch the sessions and try at least one thing before Christmas
This probably isn't for you if:
You love doing it all and feel great on Boxing Day
You want someone to plan your Christmas for you (gift lists, menus, schedules)
You're hoping everyone else will change without you doing anything differently
You're struggling a lot right now and need more support than a workshop can give. A free 20-minute consult is a better first step.
What moms are saying
"Because of this workshop I realized where I am struggling the most and have a plan to create change this Christmas. Change can be a scary word, but Kayla has helped me acknowledge that it is not as heavy as I once thought. She has encouraged me to work through the process." - Melanie Adams
"I wish I could have taken this workshop years ago, Kayla... Now that I have, I cannot unsee all the things I do. This session was very helpful to create my childhood Christmas." - Angela Lynn
A share from Leah, mom of young adults:
Leah told me this is the resource she wishes had existed when her kids were little. Her kids are young adults now, and she took the workshop anyway. As a recovering people pleaser, she figured it would still give her good tips for the mental load. And it did. That Christmas was her chillest yet.
Meet your guide
Kayla isn't just teaching this. She's doing it.
Mom Guilt Therapist. ADHD mom of two. Feminist.
Kayla Huszar, BSW, RSW, CC-PMH, is a registered social worker, creative therapist for moms, and recovering people pleaser.
The first Christmas she hosted her in-laws with a toddler, she told her mother-in-law she wasn't cooking a turkey. Her mother-in-law said, "Perfect, I'll bring everything." One phone call, and the dinner she'd been dreading for weeks was off her plate.
For the past ten years, she's helped thousands of moms stop buying their mother-in-law's gifts, cooking the turkey, and missing all of it because they were too busy being the magical magic maker who's silently seething and daydreaming about throat punching their partner. In this workshop, she shows you how to stop doing it all, because someone else can legitimately pick it up.
how it works: One hour. One clear path to your chill Christmas plan.
STep 1
Add this workshop to your cart. It takes 30 seconds.
step 2
Watch it right now, on the device in your hand. Or tomorrow, once you've had some coffee. The details are sent straight to your inbox.
step 3
Go into Christmas 2026 with a plan that doesn't lead to divorce. And finally enjoy Christmas a whole lot more.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
Everything you get in the workshop:
Five on-demand video sessions with Kayla Huszar, about an hour in total: Setting the Stage, Identify, Discover, Regulate and Agency
Watch anytime, on any device, with no live times to show up for
Video links delivered straight to your inbox
The 28-page Chill Christmas Workbook (print it or fill it in on your tablet)
Ten journal prompts, plus twenty more for when you want to go deeper
The six words exercise and the meditation reflection page
The "what does a chill Christmas look like?" journal prompt
The window of tolerance chart, plus your own list of what calms you down when Christmas gets intense
Sample scripts for family dynamics, unsolicited commentary, delegating and time for yourself
The Chill Christmas Cheatsheet
ON SALE UNTIL CHRISTMAS EVE $50 $25
Available until Christmas Eve. Then it's gone until 2027.
