under mothered : For the Mom Who Wants to Show Up Differently
15 group sessions for you to bridge the gap between the way you were mothered and how you'd like to show up as a mom.
You're over surface-level mom content, you've probably already downloaded your fair share of PDFs, courses and maybe even already done some real work on yourself.
You have moments where you show up exactly how you want to as a mom, and though you're proud of them, sometimes you lose it and feel like hot garbage because you are trying so hard.
You're endlessly giving, which means you're the one holding everything together, doing more than your share because it's easier, and because some part of you believes that's what a good mom does.
Your childhood wasn't “that bad,” and despite reading the books, listening to the podcasts, and trying the scripts, you still feel like nothing quite explains why you feel the way you do.
You're doing the hardest, most important work of your life, and it still doesn’t feel like enough.
imagine by Christmas….
Catching yourself mid pattern and thinking, of course I react this way, this makes sense given how I was mothered, instead of spiralling into shame.
Showing up on the hard days, even when it's messy, a little steadier than you used to be without needing to perform calm.
Creating the life you want, being more YOU with less guilt about the choices you make.
Feeling seen and heard, maybe for the first time, in a (virtual) room full of moms who get it (without you having to explain it).
Investment: $300 CAD
or 3 monthly payments of $100
Additional payment plans are always available upon request.
There are currently 15 open spots.
If the 15 spots don’t fill by August 31, 2026 there will be drop-in sessions available$25 drop-in, single session5-session pack - $100 (pay for 4, 1 session free)
this is for you if:
You’re ready to look at, sit with and process some of the hard stuff from your childhood
You have caught yourself mid-sentence saying the exact thing your own mother used to say, and hated how it sounded
You know you are not getting the apology, let alone the conversation, you hoped for from your own mother - and you would like a f*cking moment to process that
You want to show up patient even in hard moments
You want to understand where these patterns came from, not just collect another list of scripts to try
this isn't right for you if:
Your mental health is in red alert crisis mode and you need 1:1 support - this is therapuedic in nature but not a substitute for therapy or crisis care
You are looking for parenting advice or a checklist - this series stays with the question, and does not give prescriptive answers or unsolicited advice
what's included in this series
15 weekly virtual live sessions, one question worked through each week
60 minutes to meditate, make art, write a little, and breathe
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Sept 8 - Why do I feel off when my childhood wasn't “that bad?”
Sept 15 - Why do I feel guilty when I finally sit down and rest?
Sept 22 - Why do I feel responsible for everyone's mood?
Sept 29 - Why did I never feel this angry until I became a mom?
Oct 6 - Why do I snap over something so small, then feel terrible?
Oct 13 - How do I know if I'm reacting to my kid or reacting to my own childhood?
Oct 20 - Why have I been reading the room since before I could even read?
Oct 27 - Why do I still feel on guard, even when nothing is wrong?
Nov 3 - How do I grieve the mom I needed but never had?
Nov 10 - Why is it so hard for me to ask for what I need?
Nov 17 - How do I set a boundary with my mom without it turning into a whole thing?
Nov 24 - How do I make peace with what I’m never going to receive?
Dec 1 - Why did I just do the exact thing I swore I would never do?
Dec 8 - Why do I turn into a completely different person the second I walk into my parents' house?
Dec 15 - How do I get through Christmas without throat punching someone?
need a schedule + to know how it works?
Live calls start Sept 8, 2026 and are weekly on Tuesdays at 12:00pm MST / 2:00 EST via Jane
ARRIVE: Kayla gives a short introduction, produces the question and sets intentions for our time together
GUIDED Visualization
INVITATION to do art or write (prompts provided) to explore the session question
REFLECT on the process and (optional) sharing to wrap up the session.
how to sign up
For All 15: email hello@kaylahuszar.com
Drop-in sessions: will be available after August 31, 2026 and you’ll be able to book directly through Jane
A Quick Word on the wellness industry
I understand if you've been burned before. I have too.
A book/PDF/course that promised to make it simple and didn’t.
An expert who made it sound easy, until you tried it at six o'clock with a toddler mid meltdown.
A feed full of moms who look like they already have this figured out, while you're just trying to survive the day.
That's a fishbowl problem, not a you problem, and it's exactly what the Undermothered Series is built to address.
The Undermothered Series is a guided experiential process built around your actual story: not a parenting formula, not a script written for someone else's mother-daughter dynamic, not mindset work dressed up as healing.
It starts with your life, your experience, your perspective and we journey together, exploring and experiencing and expressing what’s Important to you (and maybe ends without freezing the second your kid tests you).
